and now he wants to have coffee with me.
Look at that-- the universe is rewarding you
for doing the right thing.
Well, be careful-- you don't even know this guy.
He could be a serial killer.
Or just want to kill you and be done.
I say pack your Mace, roll the dice.
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Yeah, go ahead, Sandra, pack your bag!
It didn't scare me last time you did it,
and it doesn't scare me now!
I am not trying to scare you!
I am trying to get away from your toxic narcissism!
We have been having the same fight for 16 years!
Nothing is ever good enough for you!
I am so done with you!
I-I'll be right there.
Great. I'll get us a table.
Oh, no, no, no!
I'm gonna be alone forever!
Sorry about that.
I lost track of the time.
Are you okay?
As always, we're not here to talk about me.
So, were you able to utilize the tools with Adam?
If anything, they made the fight bigger.
Maybe that's why you don't use them
when you fight with your wife.
I know this is asking a lot, but I'd really like you to try
and forget what you witnessed earlier.
Anyway, we tried physical touch, we tried counting.
It just led to me throwing more potatoes,
and this time it wasn't the little ones--
they were mashed and covered in hot butter.
some fights are too big for the tools.
Sometimes the rupture between the two of you
is so deep and so wide you can't even hear each other.
You try and you try, and you...
you want to put everything back in the box, but you just can't.
That sounds very painful.
Sometimes I wake up, I don't even know how to breathe.
Wait. What did you just do?
I created a safe space without judgment.
I'm not sure I like this.
That's okay. Just live with the feeling for a moment.
I don't know.
I feel like I've worked my ass off.
I've given her a great life, but...
yet nothing is ever good enough.
Why are you making this all about yourself?
I don't think I am.
You have to remember, her inner life
is totally separate from you.
Isn't it possible she has needs that aren't being met
that have nothing to do with you?
That's something to think about.
It is, isn't it?
Well, obviously, today went off the rails.
I'm not gonna charge you for this week.
Of course not. But I am gonna charge you.
I'm not kidding.
Hi. I'm not sure why I keep choosing to do it this way,
but here's a note and a check.
...razing or totally damaging
30 homes, triggering...
I know you were just in therapy.
I know you're in charge of dinner.
I'm just sitting here being mature.
How are you?
Don't just say fine. I'm really asking how you are.
Oh, God, is this another therapy tool?
Are we gonna talk to each other with puppets?
His puppets are for kids,
and I'm not allowed to play with them
since I left them in funny positions.
This is just me realizing I want you to listen to me,
but I don't always stop to listen to you.
do you have stuff on your mind?
Yeah, I got tons of stuff on my mind.
Well, the big topic in here these days is death.
Mine or yours?
getting married kind of gave me a future...
and people that I need to... take care of,
and my last birthday,
I-I turned the same age as my dad was when he died,
so yeah, I'm thinking about dying.
Oh, you know, three, four hundred times a day.
Honey, that's pretty often.
I take breaks and... worry about earthquakes.
Okay, I'm gonna touch you now,
and it's not a therapy thing.
It's an "I love you" thing.
You know you don't have to worry about me.
I can take care of myself.
I know that.
It still doesn't help.
Did you feel that?
Jill, thanks so much for hosting.
Oh, this is gonna be so fun.
Footloose Kevin Bacon is my favorite Kevin Bacon.
This is way nicer than Marjorie's.
The screen's bigger than a postage stamp,
and we don't have to fight the cats
for couch space or popcorn.
Yes, it's wonderful.
u202dThank you, Jill.
- And it smells so clean. u202d- Okay.
I got Milk Duds...
I had Reese's Pieces, but...
it's a long walk from the kitchen.